Less fighting
More understanding
counseling
for couples who look fine
but aren’t.
Is your relationship a walking contradiction? Perhaps it looks something like this:
- COUPLED but you feel ALONE
- TOGETHER and considering SEPERATION
- COMMITTED and also AMBIVALENT
- INTIMATE but also DISTANT
- FUNCTIONAL and constantly FIGHTING
Relationships reinforce who we think we are and how we feel about ourselves. Similar to how a mirror reflects back an image of the objective self, relationships reflect back an image of our subjective Self. The closer we move towards a mirror, the more details we can see. The closer we move into a relationship, the more details we are going to confront about who we think we are. It can be distressing to see versions of the Self that don’t line up with our personal view of our Self.
It is even more distressing in an intimate relationship because you are confronting this elusive image of yourself in the presence of your beloved other; a person you deeply care about and seek acceptance from. Having an experienced counselor serve as an intermediary between you and your partner helps to clarify the image that is reflecting in the space between you. A couples counselor will help you and your partner attack the problem instead of each other.
be hard on the problem
& soft on eachother
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